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Personally, I find it comforting to know that many others, even those who like Rilke possess great wisdom and spiritual strength, also share this experience. Sound familiar? And even if we choose not to get involved with anyone, ever again, those same issues that created suffering between us and our partner will come up in other relationships.
We are doomed to recycle our patterns until….
It means finally accepting responsibility for our own happiness and well-being and holding ourselves able for having gotten into the place we are, and acknowledging our intrinsic capability to affect change in the quality of our own life experience. It means forgiving those who have disappointed us, let us down, hurt us, or betrayed us in some way.
It means making and keeping a commitment to our own integrity and understanding what that really means. It means assessing our values and making sure that we are either living what we say matters, or getting honest about what we really care about.
It means transforming our resentment and self-pity into empathy and compassion. It means finding gratitude that we have awakened enough to know what our work is, that we have the desire and motivation to do it, and that we are not alone in accepting the sacred challenge of becoming a more loving human being. And try not to take it personally if you find this work more difficult than you think it should be. It just is. Whether or not you make that choice is up to you.
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