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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Been married 6 yrs2 yr old daughter. Im 32 wife is 29we've always had to work at our marriage but since baby things got bad for me at least. Wife seems content even though she has ran all her friends off, and never wants to go do anything unless its a day at the mall or a rare movie? In we had sex 9 times half of which were so quick and dull it was a waist of time!! Despite my talkes and visible frustration on these issue's she wont change, im very bored and feel old all the time!!

I have had a best friend since middle school that since my wife became this way had to go secret due to her rants suddenly about a opposite sex friendship. Friend is married also and her marriage for othe reasons could be better. We usually talk or text to vent or just catch up, awhile back she said to meet her she had a suprise. We met and spent a few hours together she got ahold of a t!! Against my better judgement we smoked i felt like a teenager again!!!

Wife seeking fwb for hubby

A week later she tells me she wishes we had better timing and that we should have been together yrs agoi sorta agreed there may have been some attraction over the yrsshe says we should be fwb and if our marriages ever end on their own we will give it a shot and if they dont we will just have whats lacking and still be friends?? Give me some feed back please!! I dont want ur oppinions on if its morally right or not i just want to know if this could work or not??

People have affairs all the time. That's what you would be doing. I mean, what is it you want to hear? Since your "best friend" is so willing, you will be able to stay married and be an attentive dad, with your wife cooking, cleaning and caring for your child, but sometimes you will be able to sneak off with your friend, get high and have sex!

Later on she will tell your daughter why. You might even try to sneak away from work to hook up with this "friend," and get fired. So your marriage wasn't perfect from the start, and now you have that is at a very high-maintenance age.

Does your wife also have a job? This stage of life is difficult for even the most committed couples. You can't really have it both ways. It might seem to work for a little while, but it rarely works. If you want to stay married, you will need to forsake all others and focus on putting all your mental and physical energy into your marriage.

If you really don't think it's worth saving, man up and separate from your wife. Last edited by BirdieBelle; at AM. I know if it seems to good to be true then it probably is! Just figured i'd ask? I think we would have seperated long ago if it wernt for daughteri dont get whats up with wife so different yet so unwilling to even talk about it? I've been very bery patient with no real of any Wife seeking fwb for hubby.

Wife seeking fwb for hubby

My feelings for the friend are same as what she saidi always thought we should have been more than friends but valuing our friendship and bad timing when we were younger it just never happened? When she brought it up i couldnt help but think about it. If i turn the offer down is it posible to continue to e her friend? She has been so helpful to be able to vent to over the years i hate to loose the friendship through this!! You Wife seeking fwb for hubby be able to maintain the friendship IF the "friend" is able to respect the boundaries of your marriage.

From what you've written, I don't think she would be willing or able to do that. I'd say you need to pick one. Don't ask your wife what's wrong or why she is different, but BE the kind of spouse you wish she would be. Honestly, I'm surprised at how worried you are about losing this friendship, yet you make almost no mention of concern for your wife or child, who did not ask for any of this. I'm betting your wife is exhausted and suspicious of your intentions with this friend.

I'm also betting your friendship is not as secret as you think. Your wife might enjoy some understanding and attention, even if, to you, she seems very unlovable right now. I also think you need a new friend for venting. Get divorced and pass that dutch.

The friendship will wait if it's meant to be. No mention of wife cause this isnt a new prob we have been through this over and over and she just wont even talk? In alot of ways i dont even have wife i guess a good way to describe it is had baby and 2 years later im just suposed to be happy when our lives would remind you literally of someone who has grand kids and nearing their 50th anniversery!

Wife seeking fwb for hubby

She likes to go do things but it all became lame, with affection but never any sexual affection, and it just cant be anyone but us? Just imprisoned in some ways but in others still love her?? Originally Posted by Niteshiftworker. You and your wife need counseling, plus she may need to see a doctor.

After the birth of the baby her hormones could be unbalanced. Does she act depressed? Post-partum depression can last years. She should get a blood test to check hormone levels. The best way to solve your problem is to work at it within the marriage, if possible. The fact that your wife is suddenly not ok with your opposite-sex friendship indicates that she knows that she has a problem and that her problem is putting the marriage at risk.

That said, IF your friend would be ok with respecting the boundaries of your marriage as well as those of her marriage, this, frankly, is the way some people solve the problem you face. It can work, if both parties are really careful, and if you don't overdo it with the frequency of the liaisons. But I'd urge you to do everything you can to resolve the problem within the marriage first, before you go outside the marriage. Last edited by zentropa; at AM. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick.

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