Just want to cuddle too lol

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Just want to cuddle too lol

Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. All Topics. Type your question. Enter more details. This guy said he wants to cuddle. Silly, silly. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond to Anonymous:. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters.

I don't really see the problem here. He's saying what he wants. He wants to cuddle with you. He never said it won't lead to sex. You said he doesn't want to cuddle, but in reality, he probably wants to cuddle first and then have sex afterwards so in reality, you're the one who is trying to make it sound confusing Why don't you take it for what it is?

A sexual inuendo. I find inuendos so much better. They give other people the ability to "assume" things themselves which also gives you the opportunity to see if they are on the same as you are. To me, it's a lot more playful and fun than just straight out saying you want sex. I consider it foreplay. Perhaps you don't and you would like him to be blunt and say it as it is which, quite frankly, takes all the fun out of it if you ask me.

Bottom line: he wants to cuddle Edited on May 3, at UTC by the author. Wilde Send a private message. My husband's a cuddler-snuggler, which is supposed to be good for his health and the health of our marriage. As a way to help his Scottish dowp from dying at 50 of chips and deep-fried Mars bars, I'll take it. Lowers blood pressure. There's a Kinsey study that says men like cuddling more than women. AMRtx Send a private message. Wilde : Great article.

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Just want to cuddle too lol

Kingslayer Send a private message. Wilde : That's an interesting study. And sexual satisfaction was the primary driver for women being happy in their relationships. Kinda strange, those findings. There's definitely no reason to say "actually I do" in regards to wanting to really cuddle. He could've sent a wink face or a "well actually I just don't see the point in lying.

CaliMAn Send a private message. Anonymous : Ahhh, so you actually DO want him to disguise what he Just want to cuddle too lol, you just want him to disguise it from you using the unwritten list of words or phrases you have pre-approved as acceptable And MEN are the silly ones?

CaliMAn : To say I miss your body doesn't sound like a disguise to me. I just picked that because I couldn't think of anything else lol. Anything sexual to me doesn't seem like a disguise. Saying I want to cuddle, an affectionate act, now that's disguising. Anonymous : I dunno Told that we need to start out with foreplay or, as it's sometimes known, cuddling. Which is fine--we've got time and are willing to do whatever it takes to help get you there. I can think of worse ways to spend a half hour than snuggling up against a beautiful woman.

But here's the problem If we are direct, you girls tell us you want us to build you up to it. When we work to build you up to it, you tell us to cut the games and just be honest say what we want. When we say what we want, we get criticized for being too direct and not building up to it enough.

And as you admitted in your reply to eDJ, you DO still want him to couch his sexual interest with indirect euphemisms, he just wasn't a good enough mind reader to know which specific euphemism you personally would've preferred he use at that moment.

Just want to cuddle too lol

Look, I'm just saying there is a reason we aren't more direct. Guys tend to like direct. We prefer it. So if we aren't being direct, it's usually because our experiences with women be they the ones we are currently with or the ones we've been with before have trained us that a more direct approach not only doesn't work, but often isn't wanted. CaliMAn : Sheesh. Who knew we made it so hard for you all.

Anonymous : We did. This reply was removed by the author. Anonymous : All guys are affectionate most act like their not cuz between men it's considered weak or at least not "macho" be glad you got a real man that doesn't feel the need to prove he's macho and enjoy some affectionate time him. I like cuddling. A lot of guys actually do. So what if he wants cuddling AND sex? Or--as is often the case with me and Just want to cuddle too lol wife--I want to cuddle her, and then I do cuddle her I wasn't lying or misleading when I said I wanted to cuddle. I really did want to cuddle. But I have kind of a hair trigger, so the cuddling led to me wanting to have sex later.

I don't think that it's unreasonable that he would want to cuddle. Though I've always liked cuddling, I've recently learned to appreciate cuddling for the sake of cuddling, and not just because it tends to lead to sex. It's my feeling that the more mature a relationship, the more likely the man will appreciate cuddling. Sounds like he actually wants to cuddle. There are plenty of guys who like to cuddle. I think maybe you;re the pessimist here.

Supervillain Send a private message. This actually code for "I want to take you shopping". This post is silly There are men who like to cuddle what is wrong with that? Especially if men say it at night. Anonymous : There in lies the problem Anonymous : Yes. Its actually funny to think but its true, guys really do like to just cuddle 'sometimes'.

But I do understand why you 'may' be a bit sceptical. It totally depends on the situation of when or how he said it. I for example got a bit upset with my ex who we were still seeing each other who text me when he was drunk at a ungodly hour asking if i was home as he wanted to cuddle. Now we can all agree he didn't just want to cuddle at that point in time because of the the situation. Something to keep i mind when assuming what a guy means. The context and situation surrounding it. I sort of questioning why a man who enjoys cuddling is funny?

We spend a lot of time here trying to teach women what guys are really like, which is not what one sees in the media, or re in the funny papers. The problem is exactly what we see here with this op: Women that decide for us what we want, how we should act, what constitutes a man or manly behavior.

Just want to cuddle too lol

It's as if people can't handle the truth, even to the point that they have to put handles on it in order to accept it: Bro-mance for example. No, its two men that are close friends, almost brothers. See, the problem is that not only do they have no understanding of men beyond their expectations, they continue to propagate the myth.

We are not the Borg. Every man is different, and every man needs to learn to be his own man. I think that guys, just as women did, are pretty much done with societal expectation, being forced into a box that works for others insecurities rather then our own desires. The OP needs to learn a bit about men. I'm as "guy" as a guy can get, but the wife and I hug and cuddle up to watch TV all the time. We watch love stories together. Anyone has an issue with that we they can kiss my arse. I don't live by their rules, assumptions, or expectations. What one enjoys doing has nothing to do with their masculinity.

Doing what they want in spite of the expectations of random others does. This includes cuddling. Edited on May 6, at UTC by the author.

Just want to cuddle too lol

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