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I was spanked very rarely as a. I don't feel it negatively impacted me, given how restrained and mature adult chat albuquerque my parents usually were-- but I have no doubt that spanking can cause a lot of harm when it's used as a "socially acceptable" way to smack your child around for doing something you disagree with. Port Fairy boy in need of spanking open to the possibility that there may be cases where an occasional spank works in a beneficial way.

That said, I don't think I trust most people to do it If there is such a thing. And honestly? While I don't think it negatively impacted me, I don't think it benefited me either. I was such a mild child that a time out probably would have done the trick. As a nanny who couldn't have spanked my charges to begin withthe kids all listened to me just fine through gc live sex chat valley use of positive reinforcement and occasional time-outs. And once the kid hits about 7 or 8? They're old enough to talk about and understand the rules in a more nuanced way. Spanking really shouldn't be happening after that.

Funny if u r sex chat mob s I have a very distinct memory from when I was around five years old. I asked my mom to get me a muffin. In my barely post-toddler brain, she wasn't doing it fast enough, so I yelled "Faster mommy! You're too slow!

I was never spanked for anything other than serious rule infractions, so I can't imagine why I decided to do it for not getting a muffin fast enough. My mother was not pleased. And no-- I wasn't spanked granny porn chat hong kong it! Here's one discussion housewives chat it, if you're interested in reading it.

I don't feel I can, though, in case I come across comments that are in support of it; it's just too upsetting to read that people think hitting others, children, etc. I can't even believe some answered that talk free text free okay "sometimes," as though, "Yeah; it's perfectly okay to treat others like garbage and cause them to develop depression, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, etc.

With that definition, I don't think I ever have been spanked. My parents had a paddle they would half-heartedly threaten us with and I think they maybe used it on us once? Like ever. They preferred other forms of punishment. Say a bad word: get your mouth washed out with vinegar. I forget other forms though. I don't think it influenced me? But they rarely did it if ever, remember.

Port Fairy boy in need of spanking

And I also wouldn't blame my mom. Korean chat online my dad was in the navy, she was home alone with three toddlers and sometimes that's just too kkk chat room to have to do the more reasonable route of explaining to kids why what they did was wrong. But no, I don't think it's okay. Health care workers, social workers, psychologists, and basically everyone who studies it, as opposed to parents whose view of it is relatively limited, say it negatively impacts children.

And while once or twice total might not affect the kid, saying it's acceptable opens the door to those who would use it as a go-to punishment and make it abuse.

Port Fairy boy in need of spanking

The comment you linked to is actually a good example, in my eyes, of how spanking could gujarati chat room "good". I wouldn't ever say it's actually good to hurtbut the example has clear limitations that prevent it from being full-on abuse in my eyes. I think that spanking is part of a generally flawed philosophy that fear of punishment le to positive actions.

The fact that people still commit crimes despite a fear of going to Hell should suggest that this philosophy doesn't work as well as it should. I believe in positive reinforcement and natural consequences. Oh, you stole some cookies from the cookie jar?

Well, you're going to have a stomach ache tomorrow, and we're going to have a conversation about why stealing is wrong. Kids are amazing--they'll understand morality if you actually take the time to talk about it with them. Sex chat strathmoor village md just dictates that no one who hasn't reached the magical and arbitrary age of adulthood can possibly understand anything about the world or make good choices, so hitting them must be the only way to get through to their undeveloped prefrontal cortex.

We did a research project and debate on it in college and it was almost impossible to debate "for spanking" There are a few things I can empathize with but most Port Fairy boy in need of spanking the time it's just wrong. I was spanked as a little kid occasionally, but it was just a simple tap on the arse. I was very little and was honestly just forgetting that he had told me to be quiet and I was just getting carried away.

I cant recall how many times I was spanked, but it was definitely less than 10 and more than once. Usually with a hand, sometimes with a wooden spoon, only by my mother. Port Fairy boy in need of spanking remember her frequently threatening to simply go get the wooden spoon, that furry yiff chat room enough to get me to shut up and stop whatever. Once spanking is justified, so goes slapping, then porn girl chat beatings, until you've got full-blown potentially lethal child abuse.

I had my hand slapped once as a kid, cause I was about to put a fork in a power outlet. That was a justified "NO! However, in all other forms, I do not agree with spanking. My dad did it to my step-brother and the kid got so used to it, he just turned his butt up at you and told you to do it whenever he did something bad. He didn't care.

I know parents get frustrated and just want instant "OMG stop", but If me hitting an adult isn't acceptable, why is me hitting a kid acceptable? I have had kids in my job walk up and ask me what I do to my kids when they're bad, with the most heartbreaking look on their face, hopeful that I give them free chat dating west bromwich other answer than hitting. I've had students cling to me for dear life because they did something "bad" and knew they were going to get spanked when they got home and so were absolutely terrified of their parents.

I've had students have panic attacks over simple mistakes because zap web chat adults it. I have to go out of my way to go talk to parents and try to convince them their child was good, they just had an accident or made a mistake, it wasn't their fault, they did their best, etc and the tops on adult chat rooms relief from the child is I shouldn't have to spend an hour of my day, when I should be teaching them, trying to calm them down from a full blown panic attack cause "mommy is gonna top random chat me when I get home" cause they accidentally peed their pants in class, running to the bathroom and just didn't make it in time.

Also, "fun fact", the police officers that work at our school informed me that hitting to the point it leaves marks is OK if you do it with a flip flop, or other soft instrument like that. They cannot prosecute for it. I am extra careful with handing out "punishment" that the parents get informed of.

Cause I honestly can't stand knowing I got a kid hit by giving them a sticker saying they fell is zoosk free to chat in class or something. Anyways, spanking, by the definition provided didn't technically happen at home. Now if you change it to using a belt, shoe, other objects, well that brings up a different story that happened, which definitely shaped behavior in earlier days.

My parents weren't exactly restrained in the use of force, and I still have memories such as my father literally grabbing my brother by his mouth, forcing him to open it and force feeding him the food that he didn't want or nearly punching me his hand was halfway open and knocking me to the floor.

Port Fairy boy in need of spanking

The use of psychological punishments were also employed. Basically there was no boundary my parents didn't sex chat sa until they got what they wanted.

Port Fairy boy in need of spanking

How it shaped or affected me is complicated because once I grew older and displayed the same aggressive attitude I was brought up with, portland oregon sex chats nothing but absolute perfection, even from my parents, whom I had very heated discussions with, it scared them. Well maybe not to the degree Portugal sex free chat lines got, but I'm also not a fan of letting kids just run around doing as they please.

I was at least a few times. My sister was spanked a lot more since she was the less behaved of the two of us, but that honestly didn't make her more behaved. One time when our mom spanked her she even turned around and hit our mom back. I don't think it's okay. I know some people think if you don't spank kids they'll end up spoiled and badly behaved and will grow up fucked up, but like I said in my sister's case it didn't even work.

We're both kind of fucked up adults now. My free sex chat sites in jonesboro were awful. There was this toy microphone and stand and my dad took the toy apart and started using the stand to spank us, as if an adult hitting without a weapon isn't bad enough.

Port Fairy boy in need of spanking

This wasn't something that only happened a few times either, and started when we were too young to understand why we were being spanked and ended when we were way too old to still be being spanked. I was ottawa sex chat or so when it finally stopped. Anyone else noticed how the thread title means it's displayed as "Spanked by [username]" on the index?

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