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We live in a society that reminds us of beauty every single day. Advertisements of beautiful people, television shows with beautiful people, commercials with beautiful people, beautiful people around us…. Aesthetically pleasing individuals draw us towards them visually.
They make products look better, and make clothing look more appealing. Many a fling was built on physical attraction alone, but how long can it last?
When conversations lack depth or intrigue, we often fill our time with physical activity together, but it is impossible to build a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone. Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions about meaningful topics, will always trump shallow beauty in the long run. Class has nothing to do with the price tag on your outfit.
Class is about the dignity you carry yourself with and the level of respect you show to those around you. How long will you stay in a committed relationship with a beautiful or handsome liar? If you cannot trust your partner or believe what they say, how can you construct a solid, lasting foundation with them? Besides being an attractive quality, confidence plays many key roles when in a relationship.
A confident person will not snoop around invading your privacy or be insecure in your commitment to them. This will bring unneeded tension to the relationship. Arrogance and cockiness are as much of a turnoff as self-deprecation, confidence is the middle ground. Passion for you, their partner, of course is important. Without physical intimate passion between two people, a wedge can begin to be driven between you. Aside from that though, is passion for life. Someone Looking for more than beauty is passionate about life will keep a relationship lit ablaze.
They will keep you excited about waking up every morning because they crave adventure and making the best of our time here on earth. Someone who lacks passion or a zest for life will seem generally apathetic and act as an anchor to your happiness. If you enjoy experiencing new things and avoiding stagnation, a passionate person will be your perfect sidekick. If you cannot introduce them to new people, bring them comfortably around friends or family, or go to dinner without them getting irritated with the waitstaff, odds are your relationship will be short lived.
Being consistent is a valuable virtue because it lets your partner know that you really are who you are. To clarify the point, think of consistency as the opposite of volatility. Being compassionate, supportive, and encouraging towards your partner is a huge part of building a successful relationship.
Effort, effort, effort. Relationships are a two way street, and sometimes beautiful people gain a sense of entitlement along their journey in life.
They are often treated differently, especially when it comes to dating. They know they are often pursued and desired, and therefore expect to coast through relationships without having to put in any real work. Does their presence in your life encourage you to be and do better? Do you like the person you are when you are with them? If not, the importance of their beauty will quickly fade when you realize you no longer like yourself.
Love builds intimacy, and intimacy builds love. But the truth is, the majority of your time in a relationship will be spent outside of the bedroom. It will be spent with family, friends, watching TV, riding in the car, or out to dinner or events.
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Other than this, I think you are pretty spot on. I could not agree more. Beauty is a two way street. I remember initially asking myself if I could be attracted to him when we first started talking and I realized he was interested. It was his internal qualities that drew me to him. Physically he is a good looking guy, but what he is inside lights his outer appearance up. This is so good. Our culture is so caught up in beauty.
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Great thoughts. This is fantastic! I was diagnosed with a rare blood cancer and have often felt ugly and undesirable because of it. With each chemo session, the cracks in my armor gave way and light was able to shine through showing me what true beauty is. It comes in so many forms. We just have to be open to seeing it.
James, you missed an important one: Respect. Can you love someone completely if you have lost your respect for them? It should definitely make the top I occasionally attained charms until now of which didn arrive with any type of bale. It is very contagious and attractive. It's Monday - take a deep breath, look your challe. Please enter a valid address. Advertisements of beautiful people, television shows with beautiful people, commercials with beautiful people, beautiful people around us… Even I post photos of beautiful people in my articles.
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